Rethinking Beauty

Excerpt:

“At the time, the comment offended me because of the value laid on beauty. But many years later during

another wakeful night I lay in the dark and worried that she might be grotesque. I immediately experienced

great shame. How could I think this about my own child?”  (“Rethinking Beauty & Visibility: Navigating

Society’s Beauty Standards While Raising My Disabled Child”) 



Commentary:

I am motivated by the mother in the post because I can only imagine how difficult it must be to deal with

other people's stupidity on a regular basis. I adored the fact that she stopped caring about the crude

remarks made by outsiders when she discovered how gorgeous her daughter really is. I am aware of

how challenging it is to ignore other people's viewpoints. Anyone who doesn't fit the stereotype of a

typical human being is subject to judgment from society. The stunning diversity found in each community

is unaccounted for by this destructive worldview. Jude should develop into a strong, self-assured woman

who is an example of bodily empowerment. She shouldn't ever allow someone to hold her back from

realizing her full potential.


Citation:

“Rethinking Beauty & Visibility: Navigating Society’s Beauty Standards While Raising MyDisabled Child.” Tumblr,

            www.tumblr.com/thebodyisnotanapology/150793855212/rethinking-beauty-visibility-navigating.

            Accessed 21 Nov. 2022.

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